Why did I write this?
I work in the advertising/design industry. I write copy and conceptualise things. I’ve done quite well at it and apparently people enjoy what I write and what I think of.
What did you write it for?
To help people and to help myself. A lot of the posts I write are, in reality, advice that I give myself. I step back from whatever problem I’m dealing with and put myself in someone else’s shoes and try and think of what they would tell me. I think we all share the same basic human condition.
If I had a normal blog running alongside I Wrote This For You, you’d see that many of the posts are reflections of what’s happening in my life.
I want I Wrote This For You to be a message in a bottle. A piece of advice at the right time for the right person. In more abstract terms, I enjoy playing with the one-to-one nature of reading (people read things on their own, inside their heads) and the contrast between that and the one-to-many nature of the internet.
Why have you been writing it anonymously?
Because the anonymous nature of the person writing it gives it power. You don’t know who’s writing it, so it could be anyone. I wanted the person writing it to be a special anyone, an old lover, an old friend, someone you met on the street or someone you’ve yet to meet. There’s also enough ego in my industry and I wanted to create something that went completely against that.
So why have you stopped that?
Because I don’t want people to assume that I’m so kind of man on the mountain, a guru who knows exactly what’s going on in life or that I think of myself in that way. The truth is, I don’t know what’s going on. No one does. I’m just like you. I have my weaknesses, my flaws, my blemishes, my ups and my downs. I’m not a prophet. I’m not Buddha. I’m just as confused as the rest of you.
However.
If even one person feels better about themselves or the world around them after reading it, then the blog would have done its job and I can die happy.
What now?
I’ll continue to write this, as long as I enjoy it, as long as Jon takes pictures and as long as someone (you) keeps finding it. So we're here for the duration.
And then?
I Wrote This For You will eventually become a book, as soon as I get off my ass, containing the most popular posts, complete with high-rez photos from Jon. It will always continue in blog form.
Anything else I should know?
I'm 27 years old, 28 in June, bald and I live in
I smoke too much. I’m a cat person.
I look like this.

51 comments:
Sometimes, some days, your posts help.
I love you. Thank you for writing this, and I'm so glad I found it =]
That's what I'm here for :)
I found 'I wrote this for you' by pure chance. Thank you for writing. For me. For everybody. Yes, you help. A lot. What you are doing is beautiful. Bless you.
/Someone in far off Bulgaria/
That's exactly how you were supposed to find it. Thank you.
/From far off Africa/
june? cancer?
i feel your writings cause we cancerians (i'm under gemini influence) do feel this way, the way you express things.
;)
8 June 1980, so Gemini :)
I've always imagined a lady/poet writing these beautiful words, no offence. But it's much to my delight to find out a guy/designer who wrote this =)
Thank you so much mr.
I am whoever you need me to be :)
i don't even know how i found this, a bunch of clicking? thank you for it.
My birthday is 8 June, too. : )
beautiful.
thank you :)
keep writing?
I don't quite know what series of clicking brought me here, but I am grateful that it did.
Thank you. So, so much.
i love your blog. thanks =)
Iain thank you for You. Greeting from Serbia from a former Capetonian - so u know you are reaching out! Thank you so very much!
The universe give us what we need, when we need it, even if we aren't consciously aware it's what we need at the time.
That's what your blog is to me. What I needed. So grateful I "happened" upon it.
thank you.
You saved me....I was so tired.
:) je me noyais
love you. i believe we were all meant to find this and it will enrich our lives in someway, big or small. we were meant for this.
myspace.com/coconusuntan
For a long time I thought it was a man in love with a married woman who was writing this for her.
Cape Town, lucky you, I am based out of Jo'burg right now.
Simply beautiful. Love every inch of this blog. I am: Captivated, Speechless, Shivered.
Perhaps tonight, it's my turn to find a piece of this blog.
Cherishing my time, somehow i wish it could be forever, reading these.
Thanks. God bless you!
I like when i read something and think: i'd love to write this.
Thank you very much.
António, Lisboa, Portugal
you've helped me embrace optimism
I love this. I know it's been said many times already, but I do. This blog is something I've just found and it's already made me... happier? better? more optimistic. I don't know, but Thank you, so much.
Brieanne, Michigan, US
I absolutely love this blog. It's beautiful, it makes me wanna cry...you've touched my heart.
thank you, Iain and John.
ps - Iain, please don't stop writing.
Yes yes yes yes. Thank you big time.
I, too, smoke too much and am a cat person, but only insofaras I live with two cats. In fact, I am an animal freak, love them all. I like how you think.I live in ND, where it is pitifully cold. Just awful this time of year.
i like you. you should add the blogger 'follow' feature to the blog so its easier to keep up with the posts :]
you have so many admirers ...
and I am one of them.
thank you for being authentic.
your posts have helped me more than you can imagine.
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! for every word you put here.
thank u. u have no idea... thank u.
When i read the ones that were meant for me, I can't breathe. Thank you for doing this
Your posts make me cry. But not tears of sadness. You say the things that I'm sometimes not able to. Thank you.
stumbled across this today and Wow! I'm glad I did!
Greetings from Cape Town, South Africa
Sometimes I feel like no one could ever understand how much he hurt me. Or how I could still love him desperately in spite of it.
And then, I found you.
You always seem to put my feelings into words. Thankyou :)
THANK YOU!
Thank you for your words and pictures. I needed to find you today.
IT helps. Thank you .
Thank you, your writing is amazing.
thank you for writing the emotions I can't even begin to express through words. you have this amazing way with words and there are days when they help me get through those rough moments. :)
<3 from spain.
Please dont take offence to this, but i have been reading this for quite some time. And have only just read your description of why you are doing this. I found it really great - but from what i have read, i really thought it was a women writing. You are a very sensitive person and definately not stereotypical. Im not even sure why i am telling you this. Weather you take this as a compliment or not, i think what you are doing is amazing. Sometimes you just need a stranger to say something that gives you goose-bumps because its so true. Thank you.
You are amazing. I fall in love with you and your words whenever I visit this site.
Hello from Singapore :)
Thank you thank you thank you.
I think you're beautiful. Thank you for your words, they make me smile. I pass them on to my friends to make them smile, too.
I Wrote This For You was something I came across simply by chance, and I haven't left it since. Almost all of the postings relate back to each of your readers in some way or another, and I'm slowly making my way back through the posts of 2008 and 2007 so I can say I've read every single one of them. They have a way of warming the heart, and have a brilliant concept behind them. Keep the good work up, guys. Love the pictures and quotes.
i love you, i love you, i love you
thank you so much for your beautiful words, and once again, i love you. :)
I doubt i am gonna say anything worthwhile except repeat everything that has been said, Thank you for doing this, punching in that key pad everyday,to make me feel better inspired and in awe.
you have no idea (or maybe you do) just how magic it is for me to find the things that are in my head written on a website. thankyou.
Thank you for giving me the right words to express my jumbled thoughts when I sometimes can't decipher them myself. Your words are amazing, & they really do help; they makes people see their darkest days in a whole new light.
Thank you loads and loads!Greetings from Singapore :)
I really love the phrasing of your words, and I've been looking for something like this for a long time.
PLEASE DO CONTINUE
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